Thursday, April 30, 2009

Do's And Don'ts On Meeting Women Online

By Delma S. Manion

The amount of dating web sites is astounding. There are also all kinds of forums dealing with every aspect of dating. And now there are the new social sites where men and women can meet. Whichever one you choose, each site has its own specific way its members can interact. There are some simple do's and don'ts that should be followed no matter where you go on the internet, if you want to achieve success in meeting women online.

Don't fill up your profile with lies. Men have had the reputation online for being liars. But women have been known to do it as well. Truthfulness in your profile will go a long way and don't cheat by placing an old photo of yourself. Put one in that really looks like you. Don't ever lie about your age or marital status. It will catch up to you. So start the relationship right by being truthful.

Don't ever ask for a picture if one is not posted. Wait till a few emails have passed back and forth. Women want to be seen for who they are. Get to know them a little first and then politely ask for a picture. Otherwise you will create a wrong impression.

Be realistic about your expectations. Don't let being a few pounds overweight, a slight difference in age or their looks cause you the chance of losing the woman of your dreams. Get to know her first before making a drastic decision.

Concentrate on what she is all about. Don't talk so much about your accomplishments. You'll come across as being self centered. Have something to say but be a good listener as well.

Do be respectful of her feelings. Don't push too hard if she doesn't respond to your queries as fast as you would want. Patience is a virtue. If she's interested she will respond.

In the first stages of communication just give sufficient information to make yourself sound interesting. Giving out your phone number in the beginning could be a mistake. The woman your giving it to could be slightly off balance or it could be taken as a sign of being desperate.

By all means use common sense when dealing when meeting women online. Also know your boundaries and use you instincts. If you follow these do's and don'ts on how to meet women on line you will succeed. But more importantly you will meet the women you want. - 23802

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